The Sin of Evil-Speaking

Ephesians 4:31

By Bro. Nsikak Menim

March 22, 2026

Evil speaking is not a small flaw—it is a serious sin that wounds others, divides the church, and grieves the Spirit. It hides behind "sharing concerns" or "telling the truth," but God calls it sin when words poison hearts. Go directly to restore in love, or cover the fault in silence; but never use your tongue to tear down what Christ died to build up.

Bible reading:

  • Ephesians 4:31
  • James 3:5-10
  • Proverbs 6:16-19
  • Matthew 12:36-
  • 1 Peter 2:1

Evil speaking is not a small flaw of personality.

It is a serious sin.

It reveals the heart, damages the body of Christ,

grieves the Spirit of God, and invites God's judgment.

Sin often hides behind acceptable language.

Evil speaking is a hidden sin that quietly destroys the church from within.

It may be excused as:

  • “sharing information”
  • “concern”
  • “telling the truth”
  • “just how I feel”

But when words wound, disgrace, divide, and poison hearts, God calls it sin.

What is Evil-Speaking?

Evil speaking is any speech that dishonours God and damages others

The mouth only reveals what the heart contains.

Evil Speaking Does At Least Six Destructive Things

  • It stains people’s minds
  • It breaks trust
  • It weakens fellowship
  • It divides brethren
  • It discourages spiritual growth
  • It grieves the Holy Spirit

A polluted tongue damages people, fellowship, and the presence of peace in the church.

How Should A Christian Respond When There Is A Real Fault In Someone?

Go to the person directly - Matt. 18:15
Seek restoration, not humiliation - Aim to heal, not expose.
Speak the truth in love - Eph. 4:15
Restore with meekness - Gal. 6:1
Cover what can be covered - Prov. 10:12; 1 Pet. 4:8

Truth must be guided by love, meekness, and the goal of restoration.